Jason --
All good reasoning. Kids and a wife can kill a perfectly good car build!!
Aeromotive makes a fuel pump controller - runs off the tach if I remember correctly - and varies the pump speed to match the motor - so you're not pumping fuel at idle - the same as when you're WOT.
I know you said "no money" but it costs money to be broken down on the hiway somewhere too... so maybe this is something you might want to consider looking into.
The problem that I see with using the pickup tube style tank - with the external mounted pump --- YOU CAN'T GO BELOW HALF A TANK.... that could be pretty inconvenient - and or - going up a long grade depending on the location of the pickup (which I would hope is at the rear of the tank).
You might see what it would run to drop the tank out and have a "sump" installed.. (I'm assuming you don't/can't do this yourself). That would get you the flooded head - the pump wants. And as an added benefit - get you to be able to dip down under that half tank of fuel. I'm assuming also that you're using a RETURN style regulator? If so - this would give you the chance to put in a return line bung - or use the existing pickup tube as the return line connection.
BTW -- My comments are not to "hurt" or make fun of what you are doing - rather = We're discussing your situation and trying to help you so you don't have problems. Talking out loud so to speak...