Hit it or Quit it!
 

OK...this is going to seem kind of weird but I'm not sure what to do so I figured maybe somebody on the board could help me with this one. This is kind of long but bear with me!

I just got back from a Business/Vacation trip to Las Vegas. My friend, who accompanied me to the trade show, likes to go to a strip club called the Crazy Horse 2. I'm not a big fan of strip clubs in general since, when I use to play in a rock band here in L.A., I got my fill of psycho strippers! In any case, we go to the club and I'm wearing a t-shirt from a band that I love from the 90's called "New Model Army". We were there for around a half hour and this insanely gorgeous stripper comes up to me and practically knocks me over jumping on me while she is screaming "I LOVE NEW MODEL ARMY!". She continues to tell me how she used to be a big L.A. groupy in the 90's and that was one of her favorite bands and she can't believe that someone still has that t-shirt! We spent the rest of the evening and most of the early morning talking about people that we knew and about the "good ol' days"(She was 17 at the time.(1994, she's 30 now!)) She told me she still lives in L.A. and is in the porn business but wants to get out and wants to get into the music business! She gave me her e-mail and asked me to e-mail her back so she could send me some music files for me to listen to that she had sang on and critique them for her! I e-mailed her, thinking she would e-mail me some music files, I would listen to them and e-mail her back what I thought. She e-mailed me again and now she wants to get together this week!

I guess my dilemma is, what do I do? I've been out with enough strippers to know how crazy their lives are and I really don't want to get sucked into that whole drama again but, oh my god, she is so HOT that it is REALLY hard to resist her! She has such a bubbly personality and she is so energetic and FUN but, like I said, I know that whole darkside to her lifestyle! HELP!!!!

John

As hard as it may be.....think with the head on your shoulders.....walk away man! Sounds like trouble.:_paranoid Fun to look at but she will either cost you lots of $$$ or give you something you will have for the rest of your life. :omg:

I think we need to review some pictures and videos to correctly analyze the entire situation.

... Uhm... are you married ?? Uh huh... no ??

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No one said you had to marry her...

RUN FOREST RUN, you got a beautiful car going together dont get side-tracked

Knock the back out of it. And have an escape plan.

Hit It then Quit It

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:yes: :rofl:

Randy

Problem is with strippers ya can't just hit and run! These hookers will stalk you and get all evil on your ass! I've been through it several times in the past and I really don't need the drama!
Obviously, marriage is the furthest thing from my mind! I just don't want to get sucked in! I mean, she is super hot so it's hard not to look at her and not want her. Then when she starts talking you just can't help but think "Damn! She's hot AND smart! Is she one of the few who's smart enough to know how to use her body for some easy money and get out when she starts to not be so hot or is she just setting me up to start sucking my bank account dry!":(

I'd post a link but I don't think some of the "Underage" crowds parents would appreciate it!:captain:
P.M. me if you're really curious! She had red hair then but now she's blond! Her natural color. She showed me!:thumbsup:

John

im with frank on this one.

You do live in seperate states dont you ??

There shouldnt be any stocking problem... unless she ties you up with one of them... Oh, I mean... uhm... yeah... stalking.

Seriously John... what are you worried about ?? If you are this hesitant now, something is steering you into the right direction. Turn the cheek and march on brother.

But not till after you brake it off. :D

She lives in Hollywood and I live about a mile east of Hollywood so, yeah, stalking could be a big problem! I've had it happen to me with other strippers! They get all into you and when you dump them they feel like your throwing them away like a piece of trash! I went out with one stripper that had "Dixie Cup" tattooed to her lower back. I didn't know what it meant until one day I asked her and she said "You know, use it once and throw it away!:wow:

THEY ARE NOT NORMAL WOMEN!!!!:willy: :lol:

John

I say HIT IT. But on a serious note, if you like her be upfront with her about some of the past experiences. Keep it real with her. Theres nothing wrong with giving anyone a chance before you judge them. Just keep it casual and leave yourself an "OUT" if it starts to get to risky.

Yeah....I pretty much plan on doing that but sometimes these hookers use that to their advantage so I'm not sure if that is such a good idea!

John

Holy Crap dude, you are not married? I'd hit that **** so fast if I were you. :cheers:

Please post pics! :unibrow:

See post #9:lol:

if you have to ask the question, you already know the answer!!!!

After close inspection, it's a hit! You single guys have all the fun!

I almost dated a stripper once, but when we met up for the first time and she brought her 2 year old and 5 year old....I had to cut it loose

Wadda ya think Frank?:unibrow: Hope your lady didn't get mad!:_paranoid :lol:

John

Please send me pics, and if she's as hot as you say, I'd be glad to take her out a few times and report back to you....


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- Dan

If it's not going to f7ck up a good thing the HIT IT!
Drama will last but she'll get over it and so will you.
Unless you're too gun shy, but then why would you post here... Tryin' to brag about it? :P

thats the best post i have ever seen here !

HIT IT !!! BUT double bag it

No! Nothing really to brag about!:lol: :captain:

I guess, for me, it's a tough decision since I've experienced these types of women before and everything inside me says "Don't Do It!" but there's something about her that made me pause and think "Maybe she's different!". I mean, I talked to her almost through her whole shift and she never asked me for money or if I wanted a lap dance! She just seemed so happy to talk to someone that knew the same people and had the same experiences that she had. Don't get me wrong! I'm certainly not looking for a BF/GF relationship but maybe a friend with benefits. I know most dancers don't like having BF anyways so it works for the both of us. I guess I'll just have to play it by ear!

For those of you who have never experienced women like this! They're kind of like Nitrous! When you hit the switch you're not really sure what's going to happen! Either you're going to win the race or blow the motor! Exciting but dangerous!

John

LOL, maybe is was the 99LBS and big bobbies. LOL!

I love "The Crazy Horse II". I've left my fair share of house payments there and received a few email addresses and phone numbers from the sweetest (hottest) girls on the planet.

I've been in a situation close to yours and looking back I'd rather have the car than the drama. Yes strippers are alot like nitrous, full speed ahead and lots of broken parts flying everywhere, and the empty bottle too.
There is alot to be said for something that comes with a key. You can turn it off and on when YOU want.

Jon send me some pictures or a link, refresh my memory of why I love the Horse II.

Mick

I got the solution! :D

Use your cell number as point of contact..you can always avoid the calls!

Use a buddy's house and just say it's yours....that way if she just pops up a day after you hit it, your buddy answers the door...and says uh you must have the wrong house no one named that lives here...

Just make sure you take care of your buddy :thumbsup:

Oh and send me a picture of her....hehehe

I would just try to "beat it" at her house. No sense in letting her know where you are living. And the cell number is a good idea, since you can screen the calls :D

:ttiwop: :yes:

I'd say hit it! But I need to see some pics just to be sure!:D

LOL!!! You may be right Frank! In my business, I have to deal with tall skinny models all day long so when I see someone petite and STACKED maybe it showed me that there are other women out there that aren't giraffes!!:lol:

John

John:

Yes, she does look like a fun ride.

As long as you:

a) Protect yourself from getting mentally involved

b) Protect yourself from getting involved long term (keep your private information private. Where you live and contact info)

3) Protect yourself from things you can't see or can't get rid of. (I have a nurse friend who works in the infectious Disease industry. You definitely don't want what's going around out there)

4) Protect yourself from things you CAN see. (She might have a jealous boy friend who is trigger happy, or a Employer who tends to her money after a job)<----- Yes this is a Pun!

If you can enjoy it while being diligent about these things, you might give it a go.

When you both met, maybe she was turned on by your name! :unibrow:

It might have sounded like employment to her. :unibrow:

Have fun,

Ty O'Neal

LOL!!! I guess you got the link........:lol:

John

70gotboost is right on. You know the right answer, use your brain.

Uhm - Skinny Models - may I ask what you do.

Okay - many years ago when i was Personal Training i used to train a bunch of Strippers. Great Clients off in the afternoons and they actually pay with paper money. Believe it or not they were all pretty normal during the day when I worked with them.

PS - I just had to remember not to wear Nylon workout pants when i was training them.........................

So Marty, I am guessing you wore really loose baggy pants instead :lol:

Only when i was training Sandy and she was wearing her Half Shirt.

Wow were they big

ps - did i mention i live with 3 girls

LOL!!! Marty! You kill me!! I also use to personal train! What certification did you reach?

I work in the apparel business making overpriced clothing for all your wives/girlfriends.

They do seem normal on an occasional basis but when you start to date them is when the real person comes out. Not bad per se but they can make some REAL wacky decisions!

John

ACE, AFFA, ACSM & NASM Staff trainer. I actually still sell Bow Flex Equipment as I worked with Tom Purvis ( Bow Flex Spokesman) when I was certifying trainer. So they hooked me up as a dealer. I also still help trainers set up Personal Training studio's. Just something I like to do on the side.

Yep - you've obviously met my wife.


Is is me or are all women a little wacky once you get to know them ???

WOW!! You went all the way!:lol:

Their all like that in one way or another but then again thats what keeps me in biz!:yes:

Not you.....I think it has something to do with their missing a certain appendage!:lol:

John