Hey Alan, I hear you. I may have to sell my car for the same sort of reasons, but it sounds like you have a really cool wife who values your hard work and happiness above all else. That is very rare. But here is the thing. It's just a piece of metal. I will be sad if I sell my car, but I have my wife, my family and our health, above all else comes first. That's the important part. My wife doesn't want me to sell mine either, and I love her even more for it. Sounds like you can't be too bad off with a supportive family like that. We should all be so lucky. You will get another car in time. 40 is not old.