Bill
Be "Mr. Subliminal"....Say 'Baer Brakes' after every 20 words you say or so.
Example:
Good Morning Dear, Are we having "Baer Brakes" for Breakfast again? Would you please pass the Baer Brakes?
or
$2,000 on the Visa? There had better be "Baer Brakes" hidden in this house somewhere!
However, never, ever scream "Baer Brakes"!! during intimacy, it doesn't work.
(Bill, please tell us that you did not use this as the BIG HINT!)