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Originally Posted by radrambler
stefan
im with you .. i have suggested we get help .several times .but sometimes people dont want to do the hard work..being married i work...
you sound like me ...its not easy to give up.it takes two to make it work ..some like the benefits of hard working people but they dont like working hard.
tom
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You are absolutely correct here... while any two people can make a marriage work, no one person can!
The best thing you can do for your daughter is to always be her dad. Don't get involved in petty stuff with your ex, and never talk bad about her or her choices.
If you want a great book to help you out on the "next one," pick up a copy of Love and Respect by Eggerichs Emerson. It has a Christian bent to it, but even if you don't practice Christianity, the advice given in the book is fantastic.
Don't give up guy, remember, you cannot control the things that happen to you, but you can control they in which you react to those things.
Shiny Side Up!
Bill