Steve, sorry to hear you can't talk. Is the wife happy about that?
My problem - if I remember right - was the tuner (me) thought the idle was fat - so took fuel out - which then made the A/F not burn well - which caused a lean miss - which read fat cause of the unburned fuel - which caused the tuner (me) to take out more fuel -- and well -- you get the picture.
The only computer I should get near is one that just does email.