The animosities and complications of mutually respecting others values and rights and agreeing to cooperate for betterment of a given region region appears to be lost in the large metro areas among those with higher levels of education and wealth.
Fortunately I have numerous friends established in many smaller farm and ranch communities all around the state of Oregon. When I need to decompress and get back to the core fundamentals and values, those communities are where I chose to spend my vacation time. IMO the "solutions" of compromise are much simpler than what the micro-managing "well educated metro's" have nurtured.
I'm not throwing stones, that's just what works for me and my family and I feel very fortunate to have those genuine relationships.