George -- In all seriousness.... you'll find that on BOTH forums...
And which one you hang out on "more" depends on how your personality fits with the other guys.
Some guys on here just 'click' -- and there's real friendships that have formed... and as I've said many a time - it's more like a bunch of your buddies have come over to the garage and you're just hanging out. But there are some serious fabricators and builders here and they're posting and willing to share info etc.
Like Todd just said -- hang out -- read -- interact -- and you'll figure out which site works for you.