[Tony_SS]

I can say, that first hand, being, saying and getting involved in negativity can and will hurt your health. I firmly believe it attributed to my wife getting breast cancer. It was at a time when she got into a fight with these 2 neighbors who were being jerks her, we were having some marriage issues and she was holding in some major stress. On top of that she was training for a marathon and pushing her body past its limits.

Since diagnosis, treatment and recovery we have changed our perspective in a big way. It's just not worth it to get upset over other people actions. It's a tough change to make for sure. I used to get SO ticked at people who drove like jerks, too slow, people who didn't hold doors open, or say 'thanks' when I did, etc etc ect. We have and still try to just let all that BS go, for our OWN sanity and stress management.

Right now, my only brother has accused me of some nonsense, hasn't talked to me in over 4 months, no birthday card or call.. just totally turned into a first class jerk. I have to let it go, otherwise it was cause some negative stress if I let his drama get to me. The old saying, people who hurt are hurting is true. I can't help him, so I let it go.

Anyway, back on the allergies, I spoke a little too soon.. the eye's are a itching. But no other symptoms. This is about half the intensity that it has ever been. So while they aren't completely gone, this is somewhat manageable compared to how it's always been.