[Vegas69]

Attitude is Everything

We've all heard this constantly throughout our lives. I'm a firm believer that making your mind up to have a great attitude is NOT sufficient.

Here are the three major variables to attitude:

Spirit
Mind
Body

Here are the things I work on to improve my attitude:

How I feel about the past- Is it a teacher or a cruch for the future?
How I feel about the future- Are you excited or aprehensive?
How I feel about myself- Do you like who you are today?
How I feel about everybody- Do you give them the benefit of the doubt or assume the worst?
Education- You must input new information into your mind if you wish to think differently.
Influence- The quality of the information you input into your mind.
Association- The quality of people and their attitudes that you hang around.
Effort- Are you doing your best in your relationships, job, etc?
Results- Are you achieving your goals?
Happiness- Are you happy with your current circumstances while you work on getting where you want to go?
Health- If you are sick all the time, how do you expect to have a postive attitude?
Spirit-I'm going to tread lightly here but I've found this to be a huge piece of the puzzle.
Reflection- Are you tracking your results and making adjustments?

Lastly and certainly not least, you don't fix your attitude and expect things to be great until the end of time. Attitude is a daily challenge and it always will be. I've found that creating GOOD habits make a substantial difference.

I now call it the spirit of the day. I start nearly everyday with personal development for 15-30 minutes through a CD or book and say a prayer with thanks for my countless blessings. It sets my day off on a great direction. Then I follow it up with all the disciplines I've worked into my life throughout the day.

I hope this helps you create the attitude you wish to have. Like all good things in life, it takes labor and persistence over time to get where you want to go. It's really a way to diagnose your own life. Until you really break things down, it's extremely tough to put your finger on your own deficiencies. (And we all have many)