[toy71camaro]

Man.. Sorry to hear about your loss. Thats a tough one. Then to have one of the twins stuck in NICU. I bet that was scary. But sounded like you handled it pretty well. You just gotta be strong during those times, and not sorry so much about the debt. That'll come back later. (always, right? lol).

Glad to hear now that your digging in your boots and hitting it hard. Knock out that list little bit and get that emergency fund stored up so you dont have to stress (man, i never realized how much of a stress relief it was to have one!!). Then you can get focused on being the best dad, and putting some money aside for the future and that build!! Looking forward to hearing your success stories!!

If there's anything I can do to help you along with your journey, let me know! This is all about learning here. I've been on this thread about a year now and have grown tremendously. Taken control of my entire finances (401k too) and its doing very well! (Granted, so has the market in total, LOL). But, learning what this is about, and how to apply it, is the important part. I'm no great investor, but I am good at managing my money, and running numbers. I'll help as best as I can!