Tony, being self aware and willing to change is a big deal. A majority of Americans simply aren't comfortable analyzing their own life, traits, and looking for positive change. It's easier to be complacent, blame your parents, the government, economy, weather, etc... for a life that is less than you hoped for. I'm guilty of it in my past as well.
I admit that I had barely a clue of why my life wasn't going the direction I had hoped when I started down this road of personal development. One of the hardest pills to swallow along the way has been learning my many weaknesses. Now, I'm definitely aware of them but I'm working on them through different perspective and attitude. It takes time to form bad habits and traits just like it will take time to make progress on those weaknesses. The positive side is you also learn your strengths and that is key. You can improve on that side of the court as well.
I've learned of my strengths and weaknesses through books, tests, and asking for other's opinions. How do they see me? My wife, close friend, employees, that was a very valuable exercise. Three perceived strengths and two constructive criticisms.
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Todd
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