We'll first need to know how tall you are and how much money you want people to think you have....
Joking aside, are you planning on taking it into the desert or just running the streets? How about towing? A buddy has a real nice crew with a 2.5-3" with TRD rims and 34"-35"'s, still rides nice and gets him to all the alpine lakes and backwoods fishing holes.
Try this and see whatcha like.
https://www.tundras.com/threads/offi...ics-w-info.63/
Goodbye gas mileage