a) Return the ring, use the money for tuition. The return on the investment will be ten-fold (at least).
b) Never ever ever ever entertain the thought of seeing her again. No good will come of it.
c) Realize now that there is no sense at all being in a relationship with anyone until you are at a point in your life where you DONT NEED to have a relationship.
Been there pal. It never gets easier. But I can assure you that it can be prevented by staying away from relationships until you dont need a relationship. I don't mean dont be social, or dont date. By all means, do those things. But dont "have a girlfriend" or live with anyone (ferrchrissakes dont get anyone pregnant) until you and the parter of your choice are at a place in life where you have all you need and are ready to share. As opposed to needing the other to fill some kind of void in one anothers lives.
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