i feel your pain brah, this is the way i look at it, lifes short and as far as i know it only comes around once, enjoy every minute of it like it's your prom night with pockets full of cash, gas in the hotrod and your girl is hot to trot and then kiss your wife and tell her how much you love her, give you son a huge hug and never let go of him or your dreams, including your right to set your tires ablaze and send your tach full circle!