Man... I just went through this color picking process myself... what a pain in the ass. The more people you ask (like I did) just gives you more ideas and complicates or draws out the process.
I did something that really helped me. I chose 5 or 6 colors and gave the codes to my painter. He sprayed each color on a test panel of sheetmetal about 8x11 each and sent them to em. I compared them in the sun and in overcast. I tell ya this really helped me. Might wanna try it. Cheap investment to make before you spend big $$ on a paint job.
I really like the mist green on your rendering. Maybe try some gunmetal/anthracite/gray wheels and I think it would be killer. It really is your call and you have been told more than once the 2 routes you can take - your choice, or the safe resale choice. Do what you think is best and don't look back.
Good luck!