What a great thread...
Add one more to the "well my car was going to be a simple driver before I found this site...then it was game over on the budget"
Thats what happened with my '69 Camaro. My very first real build....learned a ton...went over budget....have quite a few instances of "if I knew then, what I know now I would have done it different" stuff, but not too bad..... but I still love that car.
On the Cuda, I've taken a big "jump up"....in the budget...in the overall plan.... the amount of fab work etc etc etc. But I've also tried to not set a deadline for myself. I dont want it to take 10 years, but I'm okay with it taking 4-5 years (I'm at 3 right now and a long way off).
The best thing I've probably done is keep the '69 while I do the Cuda.... I still have a fun musclecar I can drive, cruise in, go to shows, tinker with and still drive..... I have that whenever I want and need my "fix". So I'm okay with not having the Cuda finnish real quick.... I still have a cool toy to play with while I build the other bigger and badder toy... I know alot of guys dont have that luxury
I'm also the kind of guy that tends to stick with things once I've started. I dont give up easy and I tend to stick to one path... I dont buy and sell cars or parts constantly.....dont change my daily driver every other year...I live in the same place...keep the same job...go to the same restaurants. Once I find something I like, I tend to keep it forever........
I think just like alot of society in general.... people have short attention spans. They change jobs every couple of years....move to a different city or house....change the daily driver every other year....nothing keeps their interest very long...it always has to be changing.If they dont get it "right now" they lose interest and move on to something else...they change plans...they get blinded by something new and shiney and they lose focus...sell off stuff at 50 cents on the dollar and spend even more $$ on new stuff....
I'm like alot of guys on here.... I do it for fun.... I see it as an investment in ME.....not my car.... I dont do it to sell off as soon as its done...this is my hobby.
My advice....have fun...whether it be a beater of a million dollar car.... this is supposed to be fun. Be realistic with your goal and your budget and dont put an unrealistic deadline on it.