Coolant doesn't flow through the radiator until the t stat opens. If you temperature gauge isn't exceeding your t sat opening temp, you aren't running it long enough.
yup i freaked out as well. I need up putting about 3 jugs in to finally fill everything up. Just go buy a cheap temp infrared gauge and point it to the thermostat. My guess is you dont have it hot enough yet
I wouldn't let it go that hot again. The infrared gun aimed at the tstat will give you an indication of a faulty gauge. If gauge is ok, you have a bad stat, or some kind of blockage, ie a shipping plug left on radiator inlet, etc.
Is the TStat a GM piece? It should open, and you should see water moving in radiator before 210. If not, shut it off.