i hear ya on the mopar controller being way too expensive. i just figured i'd throw that option into the ring.
i have yet to look at the new fast stuff, but if they say it can do vvt, then that sounds like the way to go.
the mds is controlled by 4 solenoids on the top if the block. when they are energized, they cause 4 cylinders worth of lifters to collapse. at the same time, the pcm shuts off the injectors and coils for those cylinders. as long as you dont go too crazy with the power, the mds lifters will hold up fine. but past 500hp or so, i would start to worry.
also, if you're really worried about gas mileage, i built a 6.1 based 440cid that put down 540whp on pump gas and got 26mpg on the freeway....