thanks GMR and Pappy - further confirmation the angle is off from "normal" racer stuff. If I were doing a bunch I can certainly see the value in a custom reamer. Since I am doing one car, 4 spindles, I will go down the path of picking a "standard" and just getting that reamer.
Pappy - furthermore, imagine if you didn't really know what you are doing and just bought that ball joint on their recommendation and bolted it in! You wouldn't make it far before wallowing out the spindle and bending the castle nut threads and then just having it tear apart. Maybe they should read their own tech guide about misfit at the taper
BTW, you are right, I went out and yanked the boot off of one of the joints so I could really get a good measurement and it looks to be about 9.9 degrees (I got .155" of total taper over a length of about .900"). 2"/ft = 9.6 deg. Doesn't seem like a lot but there is a difference, enough that you can see the slop of course once you tried to fit it in the spindle.
So far I am still thinking I will go down the ~7deg 1.5"/ft taper route but seeing now how close to 2"/ft it is I am going to go back and look at some stuff. After my post above I realized that Coleman offers a lower control arm with the smaller, upper ball joint thread and that Howe has a hybrid lower joint with the smaller, upper body but large diam lower stud so that will buy me a little more clearance to rotors. Another option v. the monoball item that has a Coleman pin in it, but that only comes in 1.5 taper from what I can tell, not 2. I can easily go to 1.5" without opening the bottom up (that is always the case as long as I am less angle than what is in the spindle now) and clearly going to the 2" reamer will be of little consequence if I choose to go that route as the angle change is slight. Howe offers a quite a few "hybrid" joints so I suspect they have the Chrysler housing with the 10 deg stud in some form that I could use.