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Originally Posted by 70rs
Having the gadgets is one thing. How often they use them is another.
My nephew LIVES on his XBox live and games like Halo. He is 11. His entire summer has been spent in his room on the games. Pathetic.
I honestly feel if he and his dad had a better relationship and ANY common interest things would be different. I think it comes down to parenting choices.
The games, computers, phones, friends....those will always be distractions. The bond we have with our kids is what matters.
Having projects like these cars is great, as long as the interest is mutual.
In this case it sure looks like a big hit for father & son. This will be really cool to see happen.. 
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You're right, the kids can have the stuff so they aren't an "outsider" but the time should be limited. It is hard to stay on top of that too. They would live on it if it's not watched consistantly. I also hate what these games have done to minmize the shock and torment of killing another human being. We put off letting our son play any of the human combat games until this year, he was the last one in his class by at least two years. But again, this is something that all if his friends play on line over and over again. After a very lengthy discussion with him we felt he was mature enough to discern what's right and wrong. I have made him sit down with me and watch some of the true ugly stories of war and combat, and I will continue to do so. I hate it though, why not creatures or aliens from outer space, why desencetize our kids to killing people?
I heard something ironic on the radio a couple of weeks ago. Animal rights people were mad because a dog fighting app came out, and I agree with them. But the ironic part is that we can get upset about games where animals are killed but have thousands more games where people are killed and nobody says a word. Then we wonder about Columbine?
Anyway, thanks for all the input guys. It will take some time now before we can actually make some progress on the projects as there are many other needs for a while.
I would really love to hear about any other father son projects though. It's up to us to keep this hobby alive.
Gene