I read this article today -- thinking that there was going to be something of interest - something we could learn from - some lick of a hope that there was some light at the end of the tunnel for folks that have found themselves in a bad spot.
Let me preface also by saying -- I've been BROKE... dead broke... and I've been rich a couple of times... THERE IS NOTHING WORSE THAN BEING DEAD BROKE. No question about it... it's a terrible feeling. Money might not buy "everything" but it buys what you need -- and when you need things and can't buy the basics. LlFE SUCKS.
Okay....
So here's my take away from this story....
The family that I wanted to feel sorry for --- was nothing more than your typical American family -- they used their house as an ATM... refi over and over to pull money OUT to live the American dream. Buying stuff and living large. The dude makes 160K a year -- has a Mercedes -- a swimming pool -- an RV -- "bikes and quads for the kids".... all of which was on borrowed money (the house ATM).
Sorry guys -- I don't feel sorry for them one friggin' bit. What did they think they were going to need financially when their FOUR kids wanted to go to college? How about when the roof needed replacing... or any of the other basics of unexpected costs come up. Magically refi the house AGAIN....
The banks were and are most of the problem -- they ALLOWED for people to live the dream as if it would never end.... but you MUST TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS! Period. They dangled the bait -- but you don't have to take it! You're supposed to have a brain! Just because there's coke out there on the street doesn't mean you have to do it!
BEFORE these folks blew thru their "savings" - they should have sold the quads and the RV -- then the Mercedes... and THEN dipped into the savings and in the meantime PRIDE probably kept them from doing any of that.... or getting that second job etc.
http://www.nbcnews.com/business/fami...ent-8C11036099