Sounds like you are in reasonable moderation Tony. Everybody has to find their own way. I'd still urge you to get a full blown blood profile done for your family if nothing else. Numbers do belong within certain perameters. I certainly learned a few things and made some adjustments that have resulted in a better life.
I certainly hope my friends here are reading and learning a few things they can apply to their own life. I realize this thread isn't on topic or near as popular as my Payback thread. I can honestly say that all the changes I've made through personal development are far and away the best thing I've ever done for myself with the exclusion of the people in my life.
I've started to study the philosophy of John Wooden, the great UCLA basketball coach. A couple of my favorite analogies so far:
"Improve yourself a little every single day" -John Wooden
I've found through new associations, associations with the happiest, most successful people, that they do exactly that. They are constantly learning, studying their own lives.
"Invest yourself in someone else with no expectation of anything in return" -John Wooden
This one is really key. Nothing makes you feel better than helping someone else. You always gain a friend, perspective, respect, and self esteem. YOU learn and cement your own philosophy.
Life is a continual challenge and work in progress. Don't rely on yesterday to propel you into today. Your past experiences and wins are just that, past success. Today is a new challenge and it always will be. NEVER forget what got you where you are today. NEVER forget what keeps you motivated and propelled to improve and excel. It's different for every single person in this great nation.
This morning I got off to one of the worst starts of this year. Uptight, pissed off, and just flat out no fun to be around. It's going to happen no matter what. I was able to turn it around by mid morning and turn it into a super positive day. Great lunch with my accountability partner, interviewed a perspective employee, prospecting call to a client that had her spouse die without me knowing and offering my help free of charge, taking my lady out to a great dinner.
Lastly,
"It's not what happens to you, it's what you do about it" My mentor-Jimmy Rohn