thanks for the kudos Jim

Unfortunately I am not going to do a run of those inserts - at work I am pretty limited as to how much personal use I get on the machines, and if I were to make parts for anyone else it can all go bad. I probably should have made some spares for myself and I didn't do that. Unfortunately it is the one bad apple sort of deal - a guy was doing some "personal" work and selling parts and that lead to him being let go and a serious clamping down on the shop usage. I am already about at my limit so I have, for example, stayed out of the shop for the past few weeks and let it die down a bit.
That said, if you can find a shop with a lathe (which is pretty much any shop) and buy a taper reamer (Speedway has about the cheapest one I found and that is what I used), it is really easy to make these parts. It is all a matter of how much press fit you feel comfortable with. Dissimilar metals of course have a different thermal expansion so on parts that can get hot, like heat transferred from the brakes and so forth into the spindle, you could get a loosening of the parts, specifically steel into aluminum. The other way around, aluminum into steel, would get tighter as it got hotter and that would be fine, but I would be careful if you fall back on the steel insert idea. Make sure to get a good press fit, maybe go .002" press, freeze the steel part overnight, in the AM plop the spindles in the oven at 350 deg, make sure your press is set up and ready to roll, then with some good welding gloves and moving pretty fast, do one at a time to get the parts together and that should be pretty solid I would think.
I did not do any math on the spindle stress since the stock ball joint was already .005" (I literally measured this multiple times, then asked the lead machinist to measure it as I couldn't believe it, that is an insanely high press fit but I believe it is because the walls of the UBJ are rather thin compared to a plug like I pressed in), so I figure being around the press I used should be fine without generating too much "hoop stress". I would think .002 would be okay with steel...
edit - did some math. I will start off by saying this is for your reference, I can't guarantee anything... trust me, I will be watching these press in slugs like a hawk once I am using this car on the track... but I found a hoop stress calculator and messed around with it. At .005" press fit using an alum piece like mine, the stress is around 26.5 ksi, which is within yield on pretty much any decent aluminum. Using a steel slug would be just over .004" press for the same stress. Reality is the engineers didn't design to 26.5 ksi as the UBJ has a "thin wall" and the slugs I pressed in are more like a solid plug, so the stress would be much lower pressing in the UBJ. I guessed a .125" wall thickness for the UBJ and worked with that and got about 10.5 ksi, which would equate to a .002" press on my part. Gut feel was to shoot for .0015" so I wasn't too far off

If you go with .002" on steel the stress will be more due to the steel material but I think that would work. Just get the temps very different and the press in won't be too bad.