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Old 05-16-2005, 12:27 AM
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Ok sorry for the long rant/post
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The wife and I bought our 1st house in 2001, I was going to school and working. Leave 5am get back home 11pm. Not fun. Got hired at a big corporation for a job in AZ, stayed there 3 yrs, got bored, put in for an internal transfer to OR. With no luck, the lack of quality of life is outweighing the money. We still have the house, My dad and his past wife were staying there. She passed away leaving my dad by himself, so, we decided to move back. Not entirely for that reason though. True I dont want him by himslef and he would live with us wherever we went. We love that house, we were happiest there. I actually did work on the cars then. From taking this job we thought it would be better, no way! granted we are paying for the house and renting a house to live in. (I hate renting) A have a BSEE in electronic engineering, and dont even use it at my job, hell I think I forgot what a resistor looks like!! We decided to move back and I'm gonna have to change profesions. The wife is moving back 1st, hopefully to get a job quick and then I'll move back. I hate being seperated from her, hell she's my best friend, along with being my wife. We both decided that this might not bring in as much money as we have made, but we would be happier. My last raise just barely puts us in a higher tax bracket, and we actually lost income due to that. At maybe a 2% raise it will take a LONG time to recoup the money lost from taxes. Damn so much for a quick history, sorry, but we are happiest working on our cars, living out in a rual area, in an area were I cant open the window and pee on the neighbors house!! I really dont see this being a carrer (current job). Hell she helped my put the engine in her Duster when she was 8 months preggo! So now we get to be separated for a indefinate time, until this pans out, The other reason is due to the relocation up to OR I had to sign on for a yr commitment. Come this June the wife and kid are going back to FL to start our daughter in 2nd grade. It gets depressing looking at our W2's and wonder why all the bills are late, and the car has been sitting for the last 4 yrs, we barely have money for maintance items? No we dont party. Our biggest thing is going out to eat. All this just to be happy! I'm going back home, to my defintion of "happy"
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Old 05-16-2005, 08:37 AM
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Good Luck to you on your move.
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Old 05-16-2005, 01:08 PM
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That's life. It is up, down, and all around. Don't think you are asking for advice but if you were I would simply suggest you set a very specific goal that your wife also shares then pursue it with every fiber of your being. Keep you priorities straight God, Wife, Family, then you and things will smooth out. Make that car a part of the family plan and watch it grow.

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Old 05-16-2005, 03:06 PM
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How far will I go? ALL THE WAY, BABY! Quality of life is everything. Sometimes that means securing funds, more often than not, it means being at peace with yourself. Contentment. Sounds like you are on the right track. Focus on quality of life and all will be well.
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Old 05-17-2005, 06:33 AM
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Thanks guys, sorry for it coming off like it did. My wife feels bad cause I always put "me last" She feels bad for it, and I tell her its for the "better". Like stated, I try to keep the priorities in order, not always easy as it may seem. As far as the cars sitting, Our "smarter" inlaws that don't know which end of the fuel nozzle to use, say sell everything, well being they are at the house, they really don't do anything but take up space. I guess this is another "down" it sux but we are going to make the best of it. As far as how far to go, our quality of life is being able to play in the garage in peace, so basically everything we try takes our hobby into account. Hmm wonder if we are obsessed?
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Old 05-17-2005, 10:11 AM
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Family happiness is the most important thing.. the hobby.. well is just a hobby. I bought my 68 and then something came up.. need a chunk of cash for a good cause (family related). At first I was pissed because if I would have known I would not have bought the 68 and bought a cheaper project car. Then I realized that is the way life goes. I could mortgage the house that is putting my hobby ahead of my families well being, not something I am willing to do.

Without a happy life all the toys in the world won't do crap for you..

Good luck with your move and I hope you are with your family ASAP!!!
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Nothing is more important than your family. Do every thing in your power to get back to your bride and your children. Times a wastin'. Time you cannot get back. Remember, "Cats in the Cradle and the Silver Spoon, Little Boy Blue and the man in the moon, WHEN YOU COMING HOME DAD, I DON'T KNOW WHEN, BUT WE'LL GET TOGETHER THEN, SON, YOU KNOW WE'LL HAVE A GOOD TIME THEN"

Sorry for the downer, man, get home. They miss you more than your employer does, and they will remember your name longer(your family).
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yep family is everything...get back with them as soon as possible and everything will work out for the best!!

on another note...you're in Oregon and haven't given me a call!?!
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yep family is everything...get back with them as soon as possible and everything will work out for the best!!

on another note...you're in Oregon and haven't given me a call!?!
DOH! The family goes back to FL mid June, in like 4 weeks, I'll be up here for an undertermined amount of time. I'll definatley give ya a call then. Let me know of any car shows up here, I'll come hang out, since the family isn't here, I gotta stay busy to keep from getting bummed, so I'm kinda like free help!
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