Thanks for understanding Larry. As a test, you can go join any random message board and make a post with the caps lock on and someone will respond with the same joke. "Why are you yelling" Technically speaking, all caps makes it a bit more difficult to tell when one word ends and the next word starts. Socially speaking, you save the caps lock button for when you really do want to yell. There is a fair amount of lingo and etiquette to be learned. Not because others tell you to do so, but because it helps others to better understand your thoughts and comments.
And you can think of these message boards as online "virtual" car clubs. Just like at any local car club, a fair amount of ribbing is to be expected. Only the ribbing can easily come across the wrong way on a message board.
Scott and crew do an excellent job of keeping out the trouble makers. They'll put the smackdown on anyone who is intentionally antagonizing other members. You will need to trust their judgment. If they think a post or poster should be considered offensive, they will vigorously take action. And they did not take action in this case. I tend to agree.
Also there is an "Ignore" feature in your User Control Panel. If you find a member to be particularly annoying, you can choose to ignore just that member's posts. Click on the member's I.D., hit "Ignore" and poof!! They're gone. I use it all the time.
I really dig all of the roof chop photos on your site. You will make a worthwhile addition to "the club". Kick back, open a virtual "cold one" and help others build their cars. Encouragement is as important as technical support.